Changing Lives, One Spank At A Time - On Disability & Kink With Joshua And Mary

Changing Lives, One Spank At A Time - On Disability & Kink With Joshua And Mary

We talk about the intersection between kink/BDSM with disability, the ways play can be adapted and tweaked to best suit different abilities and needs, the issues around stigma and fetishizing disability, green and redflags.

We also dive deep into professional domination, how to ensure consent, the importance of friendships before play, integrity, and vulnerability…

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Embracing The Serenity That Pain Can Bring With Eli

Embracing The Serenity That Pain Can Bring With Eli

Eli discuss the appeal novelty in BDSM, one night stands versus relationships, the need for respect online and real life, submission in an out of the bedroom & the pre-work needed to be successful, degradation kinks, the dance of domination & submission, signs of consent, and safe words.

We also discuss the concept of sub-spaces, with the revelation that it may be a goal in and of itself (non-sexual). We also discuss the interplay between society, family, religion and culture with kink…

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Exploring The 'What If's' With Loni

Exploring The 'What If's' With Loni

Loni joins us for a discussion on sapiosexuality, sex as art and embracing curiosity.

We discuss the problem of becoming defined by labels, the ethics of consent, kinks all being a spectrum - rather than a binary category, being attracted to the process of the mind, and the relationship between sexual and mental health. From there we…

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