REALITY CHECK
Discover your divine purpose, heal your soul, and awaken to your highest calling.
Join Zachary Phillips on a journey towards living a more examined life with talks delving into the nature of reality, the search for meaning and the pursuit of happiness.
30: The Importance Of Assertiveness
Developing assertiveness is key to ensuring a stable mental state. By actively addressing issues as they arise, you cut them off before they can fester and derail you into bouts of rumination.
In addition, assertiveness easily overcomes bouts of indecision that can plague groups, individuals or businesses. If it is ultimately of little importance, take the initiative and choose
27: What Grief Feels Like - On Suicide and it's Effects
Grief comes in waves.
In this episode, Zachary discusses what grief feels like, as well as the feelings that arise when someone commits suicide.
Regardless of your proximity to the person, their death can be confusing and can significantly impact you.
25: Overcoming The Pointlessness of Life
When I am depressed, the 'pointlessness of life' becomes overwhelming.
This episode addresses why life can feel pointless, as well as some of the ways that I overcome those feelings.
19: Taking a Day Off From Life
Zachary talks about his day off from life, spent in solitude meditating. No social media, communication, reading, writing or eating; just observing the mind.
"I noticed that my mind would throw up strong urges and emotions. I started to act on them before I realized that I was doing so. This led me to wonder (in normal waking life) how much do my emotions, thoughts and feelings control me? I always presumed that I lead them, but I think I am drastically wrong about that."
15: Protect Your Mental State At All Costs
"Protect your mental state, that way you are in the best place to help others.
It is important to realise that your mental state is the lens in which you view the world, if it is compromised, so to is your ability to judge the people, events and actions of your life..."
12: What Depression Feels Like
In this episode you will hear about Zachary's experiences with depression, the symptoms and impact on his day to day functioning.
"When I am depressed people want to cheer me up, which is a nice sentiment of course, but it doesn't address the issue completely. It is analogous to complaining that you cant understand a radio and to help, people keep raising the volume. You can hear it just fine, it is the tuning that is the problem"
11: How I Get Myself out of Bad Mental States As Quickly As Possible
"When somebody is in a down mental state there is a tendency for them to feel like they have always been in that state.
Personally, when I am going through a bout of anxiety, depression or disociation I feel like I have always been suffering from it. It taints every memory of my past and makes me feel like it will be there for each instance in my future.
To combat this, I have written a 'mental health check list' that outlines that things have and will get better (they always have). As well as lists the activities that have worked for me in the past .
I leave this on my wall as a reminder and promise to myself that I will try to get better, even if it feels like I can't.
In this episode I go in depth, explaining what I do to pull myself out of a down mental state..."